I Love You, Let’s Meet

Posted March 10, 2007

I don’t think I agree with this Canadian advice columnist’s answer to the 44-year-old virgin. Wouldn’t you want to know that before you met someone?

4 Comments so far

judes on March 11th, 2007

While yes, I would want to know if the person I was meeting was a virgin, if I were the 44-year-old virgin, my priority would be just having sex already. I think most guys that age would be freaked out (and rightfully so!) about being someone’s first. In this case, I might suggest a lie of ommission. Either that or hiring a pro prior to the big date, making it a non-issue.
Antozilla on March 12th, 2007

I agree with the newspaper writer. See if you too click and then tell em. No point in putting that out there and then find the connection isn’t there in the first place, and if the connection is there, it will be irrelevant.

THAT said, I have a non virgin friend who tells her first dates she practices celebancy (her word not mine) at their first date and wonders why she doesn’t get a second one but that situation is way different from this one.
kmcleod on March 14th, 2007

Why don’t you pass this on to the “Chaste Groupie” lady, –P.M. Dawn, or whatever her name is, and get her take on it…
virginia on March 15th, 2007

HA! P.M.Dawn Eden is no virgin, but if she were she’d not be hiding it. It’d be her handle profile in some snappy NYPost-type headline like Cut to the Chaste.