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	<description>Adventures in Online Dating</description>
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		<title>By: virginia</title>
		<link>http://virginiavitzthum.com/ilylm/2006/06/13/welcome-2/comment-page-1/#comment-9</link>
		<dc:creator>virginia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jun 2006 14:39:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whoo-ee, now there&#039;s a gauntlet thrown down, Karen! I salute Belle du Nuit for doing it her way.

Personally, I&#039;d rather shop for meaningless sex in bricks and mortar than online. I just never know if I want to moil and toil with someone til I&#039;m physically in their presence. Though I do see the appeal of &quot;ordering in&quot;....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whoo-ee, now there&#8217;s a gauntlet thrown down, Karen! I salute Belle du Nuit for doing it her way.</p>
<p>Personally, I&#8217;d rather shop for meaningless sex in bricks and mortar than online. I just never know if I want to moil and toil with someone til I&#8217;m physically in their presence. Though I do see the appeal of &#8220;ordering in&#8221;&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: belledunuit</title>
		<link>http://virginiavitzthum.com/ilylm/2006/06/13/welcome-2/comment-page-1/#comment-8</link>
		<dc:creator>belledunuit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jun 2006 04:01:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay, I want to challenge Karen for title of Nerviest. The most fun I&#039;ve had online dating in the last few years is on four or five occasions when I met a stranger and had sex with him within half an hour...three times with men in a hotel room, theirs or mine, and once in the apartment a man shared with his (absent) girlfriend. It was much odder and more perverse than picking someone up in a bar, because we met knowing that we shared the same kink and would sleep together regardless of whether we had &quot;chemistry.&quot;  Two of these episodes turned into relationships, one just sex, the other loving and serious. I&#039;d always envied gay men&#039;s pick-ups, and online meeting made it possible for me to &quot;order in,&quot; too. I know it&#039;s a pathetic, sordid substitute for a real relationship, but it was better than never getting laid the way I wanted...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, I want to challenge Karen for title of Nerviest. The most fun I&#8217;ve had online dating in the last few years is on four or five occasions when I met a stranger and had sex with him within half an hour&#8230;three times with men in a hotel room, theirs or mine, and once in the apartment a man shared with his (absent) girlfriend. It was much odder and more perverse than picking someone up in a bar, because we met knowing that we shared the same kink and would sleep together regardless of whether we had &#8220;chemistry.&#8221;  Two of these episodes turned into relationships, one just sex, the other loving and serious. I&#8217;d always envied gay men&#8217;s pick-ups, and online meeting made it possible for me to &#8220;order in,&#8221; too. I know it&#8217;s a pathetic, sordid substitute for a real relationship, but it was better than never getting laid the way I wanted&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Anne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jun 2006 15:09:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>V-looks great!  I&#039;ll keep reading.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>V-looks great!  I&#8217;ll keep reading.</p>
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		<title>By: virginia</title>
		<link>http://virginiavitzthum.com/ilylm/2006/06/13/welcome-2/comment-page-1/#comment-5</link>
		<dc:creator>virginia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jun 2006 20:55:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stay tuned everyone, Karen&#039;s exploits are the nerviest, craigiest exploits going.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stay tuned everyone, Karen&#8217;s exploits are the nerviest, craigiest exploits going.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen</title>
		<link>http://virginiavitzthum.com/ilylm/2006/06/13/welcome-2/comment-page-1/#comment-4</link>
		<dc:creator>Karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jun 2006 20:38:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congrats on your entree into the blogosphere, VV! 

Thanks for providing a forum for me to blab to the wide world about my nervy exploits. And craigslisty exploits. And other exploits.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congrats on your entree into the blogosphere, VV! </p>
<p>Thanks for providing a forum for me to blab to the wide world about my nervy exploits. And craigslisty exploits. And other exploits.</p>
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